Cuisine vs Drive Through

It was suggested to me by one of my good friends that I should consider starting a blog. At the time, I was assisting him in unraveling the “intricacies” of the female mind. I laughed when he mentioned this idea.. because to be completely honest- I’m 99% sure that men over analyze things on a scale comparable to our own “dramatic conclusions”… so from time to time- I “advise” him on certain encounters he has with women.
Now…just to clarify- I’m definitely not in the majority on where I am in life and how I got here… I’m 26, married, and have a baby. Although some might see me as “done with the dating scene” I feel like I’ve got MUCH more to contribute, because basically I feel like I’ve made “right” decisions for me, based on the situations I’ve encountered. Plus since I’m no longer in the dating “scene” – I think without the “love haze”.

Let’s rehash the “current events” section of my life… After being in Denver for 3 years… I found my perfect dog, Murphy… Met the man of my dreams (who is now my husband)…March 24 2007 Got married to my amazingly handsome fireman (don’t worry- same guy)… found out we had an amazing blessing coming our way… July 2, 2008 My entire world changed when I had my little girl .. been taking things day by day ever since.
I have a great job… I work in the energy industry and perform a job which allows me to learn about all aspects of each energy genre- from nuclear to wind. I love it and it is perfect for me because all my days are all different.

For my first entry… I’m going to address a common misconception held by most males. Females do, and always will, talk about sex with their friends… probably more than guys and their buddies talk… however- the conversation is different… an easy comparison would be to do a compare/contrast to a late night drive through menu, and an Italian cook book. Both get to the main dish… however- one tells you EXACTLY what you’ll get and what it costs… while the other explains what goes into it, how it’s made, and how long it takes to get there. Also included are the sordid details from experience giving you handy tips, tricks, and even shortcuts on how to get the desired results. Basically what I'm saying.. is that females utilize their friends for "new recipes"... where as men tend to fall prey to advertising "Fourth Meal"... as well as asking friends if they liked what they ordered.

Moral of the story.. Men - don't expect Fillet Mignon when your history consists of "ordering" off the dollar menu.